Sanford Fallout

Ken AshfordGodstuff, Republicans, Sex/Morality/Family ValuesLeave a Comment

It really really looks like the GOP is revving up to cut ties with the religious right now.  The Sanford Affair seems to have provided the opportunity to do this.  Why do I think that?  Well, the mainstream media is covered with stories about the downfall of social conservatism.  And then there's quotes like this: South Carolina Rep. Bob Inglis… sees … Read More

Obama and DOMA

Ken AshfordConstitution, Courts/Law, Sex/Morality/Family ValuesLeave a Comment

Michael Dorf has an excellent thoughful column explaining the DOJ's mostly (but not entirely) weak defense of the Defense of Marriage Act in the Smelt case.  DOMA prohibits the federal government from granting same-sex couples benefits that, by law, flow from "marriage" or are granted to a "spouse" — health benefits, for example. An excerpt: Why did the Obama Justice Department … Read More

NC GOP Leader Says Same-Sex Parents Are More Dangerous Than Second Hand Smoke

Ken AshfordLocal Interest, Sex/Morality/Family ValuesLeave a Comment

Nice, huh?  But that's what House Minority Leader Paul "Skip" Stam (R-Wake) said. What's more, he said that in open public debate, in front of an audience which included the children of a lesbian congresswoman. Even more surprising, his comments were made in the course of debating the School Violence Prevention Act (Senate Bill 526).  Now, the impetus behind that bill … Read More

Obama Administration Bad On Gay Rights

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There's no avoiding it: Obama's record on gay rights is not going to be good.  That's unfortunately, especially given the trend in the states to recognize gay marriage.  Many on the left have condemned Obama for this; now the Gray Lady takes a shot: The Obama administration, which came to office promising to protect gay rights but so far has … Read More

And Then There Were Six

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Marriage equality reaches New Hampshire: The New Hampshire legislature approved revisions to a same-sex marriage bill on Wednesday, and Gov. John Lynch promptly signed the legislation, making the state the sixth to let gay couples wed. The bill had been through several permutations to satisfy Mr. Lynch and certain legislators that it would not force religious organizations that oppose same-sex … Read More

Quote Of The Day

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"It's like, `Oh great, we made the cut.'" — David Hyde Pierce, on the California Supreme Court ruling (Pierce was one of the 18,000 same-sex couples who wed in California, and whose gay marriage remains valid despite the recent court ruling)

The Prop 8 Battle Continues

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Ted Olson and David Boies in the same courtroom.  Last time that happened it was in Bush (Olson) v. Gore (Boies).  But now they have teamed up to fight Tuesday's decision by the California Supreme Court on Proposition 8: A lawsuit filed in federal district court states that Proposition 8 — which eliminated the right of same sex couples to marry in … Read More

21st Century Etiquette

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The New York Times examines the (im)propriety of texting at the dinner table.  Making a phone call at the table is an obvious faux pas, but what about the less intrusive texting?  As you might expect, working husbands and teenage daughters don't see it as a problem.  But there are exceptions: Brigid Wright, 17, from Needham, Mass., said that like many … Read More

Cali Supremes Uphold Gay Marriage Ban

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Not entirely unexpected, but in a six-to-one decision, the California Supreme Court upheld the state’s ban on gay marriage, the Proposition 8 referendum voters approved last November. The court ruled that Prop. 8 “constitutes a permissible constitutional amendment (rather than an impermissible constitutional revision).” Silver lining: the court declared that the 18,000 same-sex marriages conducted last summer, prior to the passage … Read More

Marriage Equality Update: NH Edition

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Looks like NH Gov. John Lynch is going to veto the same-sex marriage bill passed by both houses of the NH legislature. He gives a long explanation here, but it boils down to this: he wants additional legal protections for religious and fraternal institutions, specifically: I. Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a religious organization, association, or society, or any individual … Read More

Marriage Equality Update

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In New Hampshire: governor still mulling over signing the bill [UPDATE: Nope.  It still requires some signatures from Senate and House leaders — bureaucracy, on other words.  It hasn't even reached the gov's desk.] In New York: NY state assembly passed marriage equality bill yesterday. Media Matters has a nice compilation of the right-wing pushback, complete with their "slippery slope" … Read More

Student Attends Prom, Gets Suspended

Ken AshfordSex/Morality/Family Values1 Comment

What is this?  Footloose? 17 year old Tyler Frost wanted to go to the prom with his girlfriend.  The problem? She attends a public school; he attends a Christian school.  Specifically, he attends a fundamentalist Baptist school in Ohio which forbids dancing, rock music and hand-holding. He went anyway, and the heavens did not open up with God's wrath, and … Read More